I love my boyfriend but this relationship isn’t right for me. He just is very insensitive to my needs. He is a great dad and tries to be a good boyfriend but theres a lot of things that I can’t deal with. Hes controlling – tells me what to do and when to do it. Hes best friends with his ex girlfriend who he had a pretty frequent sexual relationship with and he even brought her to the hospital when i gave birth!! that really pissed me off! plus his parents don’t want us together and his dad calls me a liar and says my home is unsafe for my son which is total crap considering his dads a former alcoholic and they swear and scream all the time. I just can’t deal with this anymore and I know he wont give all that up for me so i need to leave him but I dont want to hurt him. How can I break up with him?