Every night he’s home, my husband has what he refers to as a “few” drinks (a couple of mixed drinks and a few beers). Last night I asked him if he would not drink so much and he agreed. When he went outside to walk our dog, I saw he was drinking a beer. When asked why he did after saying he wouldn’t his answer was “I wanted to” I felt as if I’d been lied to and think he may have a serious drinking problem. He’s a great provider, is wonderful to my family (mother, son, grandchildren), gives me anything I want and is obvious in his love for me. He doesn’t understand why his drinming is an issue with me, but I’ve never known anyone who drinks every day and consideres a six pack and a couple of shots “a couple of drinks.”