How can I get my boyfriend off cocaine?

07/11/2010 admin 7 comments

I am month pregnant and my boyfriend and I live together and are relatively happy, but nearly every weekend I have been pregnant he has gone out and left me alone in our house beside myself, he comes in at rediculous times absolutely out of his mind, i know he take cocaine even though when I ask him about it he denies it, but I have proof because his bank balance is down, I have read messages on his phone asking friends/dealers if they can get him any and I know all his friends do it. I was no angel, I took nearly coke everyweekend before I found out I was pregnant, as soon as I found out I sorted myself out and got help because I want to be the best possible mother to my unborn son.

I just wish my boyfriend who I love so much would sort himself out the way I have, I dont want my babies dad to be like this what can I do? Any advice. He is a lovely guy really and the last 2 week has been by myside 24/7 but I read a message on his phone from the weekend from when his mates came over!

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Written by Mandy <3 about 2 years ago.

show him that you know the messages, and just say that it frustrates you.. & also, no sexx until he stops
Written by totalbeyotch about 2 years ago.

Tell him if being a father does not motivate him to get into rehab, nothing will and he’ll be a cokehead forever.
If he’s not ready to go, he won’t. You may have to ket go for a while to get back the man you really know and love.
Written by my_p_u_s_s_y_kat about 2 years ago.

It is going to be tough, but you might start by explaining to him that you understand his addiction since you had the same addiction, and that you are willing to work with him to get over it. Explain that, this road will lead to only misery, not only for him, but for you, and for his son; then get some professional help to assist both of you. Good Luck.
Written by Martha Z about 2 years ago.

Alovely guy who just happens to be a dopehead? girl get you headf on straight. you are going to have a baby for petes sake. get rid of this fool, you have something much more important coming into your life.
Written by eager2know about 2 years ago.

Tel him that you know, and that you would like for him to stop for your family. Tell him he has to choose, you or the coke! If he doesn’t know, tell him that he can’t be with you. I mean, I know you say that you were doing it and all before you found out you were preggers, but you have sorted out what is important in your life for the sake of your unborn child. He should too!
Written by gordonflames242003 about 2 years ago.

It is great that you want your boyfriend to change and be the best dad that he can be, here is the thing he has to want to changem especially since there is a baby on the way, you have done great by knowing you had a problem and getting help to correct it, it is going to be up to him to do the same thing. Do however talk to him and let him know how much this means to you and that you want what is best.

Since you are aware he is doing cocaine and him knowing that you do moight give him a push. If he knows that you mean business then he will get serious a make a change for the better. Suggest that he go to rehab or somewhere that is local and great for him to seek help, depending on how long he has been on this stuff might determine if he needs more help once he does seek help. So hang in there and hope for the best.
Written by Rocky B about 2 years ago.

buy the guy a gun , so he can put himself uot of missery ,he is also probably cheating on you….find somewone who cares more about you and the child. there out there , sounds like your looking in all the wrong places for love…..

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