So my boyfriend has a little brother who is 5 and he 19 but he has always taken care of him, and he can’t make him mind AT ALL!. It drives me crazy, Tim can’t make teddy go to sleep at a good time, he stays up and watches cartoons in till 5 IN THE MORNING. He’s so sneaky, he will sneak out and watch TV when Tim is asleep and Tim will find teddy pass out on the couch when he gets up to use the bath room. I don’t live with him, but I can hear teddy saying no to Tim all the time and its 2 in the Moring. It gets on my nerves sooooooooooo BAD. I told him to take away his toys and not give them back in till he minds. Tim lives with his dead beat dad and 2 other brothers who don’t help out at all. So it’s just Tim all the time taking care of teddy when it should be his father. the mother is gone no one can find her because she’s on meth…So I told Tim that teddy should be in bed by nine, and teddy doesn’t even have a room to himself he sleeps in his brothers rooms for Christ sake. IT DRIVES ME CRAZY LISTENING TO IT. He gets no respect from teddy, I told Tim you should spank him (not with a belt) but just do it! He needs to know who the boss which teddy thinks he is. I HATE IT!!! I’m pulling my hair out over here, I’m seriously thinking about breaking up with him if he won’t take care of it. I don’t know what to do. PLEASE HELP ME