How Do I Get My Son Off Drugs? http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com We will help your son fight his addcitions! Sun, 09 Oct 2011 21:24:18 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 How do i tell my partner i want to split up? http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/how-do-i-tell-my-partner-i-want-to-split-up/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/how-do-i-tell-my-partner-i-want-to-split-up/#comments Sun, 09 Oct 2011 21:24:18 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/how-do-i-tell-my-partner-i-want-to-split-up/ We have been together 6yrs living together for 3yrs and have a 1yr old son together we are not married. I want to break up with him and move out with my son but don’t know how to begin the conversation. I want to split up because of his alcohol intake during the weekends as he says very nasty things and am sick of it he puts his alcohol and computer games 1st and he is 40yrs old!! im 26

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/how-do-i-tell-my-partner-i-want-to-split-up/feed/ 2 My son cheated on his girlfriend and I caught him!? http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/my-son-cheated-on-his-girlfriend-and-i-caught-him/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/my-son-cheated-on-his-girlfriend-and-i-caught-him/#comments Sun, 09 Oct 2011 04:25:33 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/my-son-cheated-on-his-girlfriend-and-i-caught-him/ Ok. so. here’s the problem.
My son Michael has a girlfriend named Molly, who I really like.
They’ve been dating for three years now and he was talking to his sister Pheobe about how much he loves Molly and might marry her.

Yesterday I night, I came into my son’s room to bring him his laundry and he was making out with another girl on his futon! Idon’t know what to do. I’ve known Molly for years and don’t want to see her hurt, but I also don’t want to let my son cheat on her. Also, I think Pheobe knew he was kissing other girls- maybe doing more- and I’m worried about the example he’s setting.

He says they were drinking but I know what alcohol smells and I didn’t find any bottles. They were not drinking

Please help, I don’t know what to do

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/my-son-cheated-on-his-girlfriend-and-i-caught-him/feed/ 13 Senior week for 18 yr. old son? http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/senior-week-for-18-yr-old-son/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/senior-week-for-18-yr-old-son/#comments Sat, 08 Oct 2011 11:24:17 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/senior-week-for-18-yr-old-son/ Our family has been planning a trip to Bahamas (not booked yet) for my son’s high school graduation. Last night he comes to me very excited because some of the guys have asked him to go along to a local beach for “Senior Week”. He told me that no one asked him to go along anywhere, just these guys. I know the parents of these kids and they are pretty good kids but I know that they drink alcohol on occasion. (There are 4 boys asking him to go). He doesn’t hang out with these kids other than talk to them in school.

His one friend that he does hang out with hasn’t been invited anywhere either. Now comes the kicker, another friend, whom my son considers his best friend, is headed to FL with 3 girls and another boy and staying at his grandmother’s house with these kids. The FL gang didn’t invite my son either. I got offended by this because we are (I thought) good friends with this boy’s parents. We go to dinner, watch football, hang at each others’ houses on occasion, stuff like that. There have been other times that this same boy left my son out of things and I know they don’t have to do everything together but it seemed like this end of the year trip is a big deal. I would think going with your best friends would be the thing to do.

So what gives? I don’t want my son going to the local beach for “Senior Week” because I know how it gets and that’s not what I want for him.

Do I ask the FL boys’ mom why my son wasn’t invited? Do I send him to the local beach anyway? Do I make his life miserable and make him go with us? We probably won’t go if he doesn’t go along. We told him to bring a friend and he could have his own room, and he didn’t have to stick to us all the time.

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/senior-week-for-18-yr-old-son/feed/ 3 My mom is drunk, upset my son.. do you think she needs help? http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/my-mom-is-drunk-upset-my-son-do-you-think-she-needs-help/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/my-mom-is-drunk-upset-my-son-do-you-think-she-needs-help/#comments Fri, 07 Oct 2011 18:27:06 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/my-mom-is-drunk-upset-my-son-do-you-think-she-needs-help/ My mom is wasted. She is upsetting me and I really am not sure what to do.. When she was with my dad, she was uptight, very christian like, and a perfectionist.. when I was 18, the same month I graduated High School they split up… they both moved away…. she took my sister with her, right before I had my son, she returned… Atfirst I knew she changed, and I thought it was VERY good at first I thought it was for the better.. She was a bit more relaxed, still acted like a Sincere Christian although I noticed she actualy drank alcohol.. which was fine.. NOW… I get home from work and she is WASTED, tonight she is BEYOND wasted.. talking in weird voices and just sprawled out on the couch.. my son (5 years old) thinks its funny, but she is making comments to him which I think are Unappropriate, although he doesn’t seem to understand them.. He doesn’t have school tommorow, and instead of bringing him to his DAD Mom and Dad (they always watch him when he is off) I thought she might enjoy a day with him… NOW she is telling him ” Why do I have to watch you tommorow” ” I don’t know if I want you to stay home tommorow with me” She is playing guilt trips on him and acting like she is crying saying.. ” You don’t like me” making him start to cry and beg her for approval.. HELLO.. an I the ONLY PERSON that thinks this is wrong??? I told him to leave her alone.. and I told her to stop.. NOW.. she Upset my son.. he doesn’t understand whats going on.. She is yelling at me calling me stupid cause I told him to leave her alone, I finally got her in her room and I locked her door.. I don’t need this stress.. now he is in his room in a time out for calling me stupid.. and I feel bad for punishing him…?? ** Adding on.. I am not a uptight Christian type, I am relaxed, I enjoy my alcohol.. but getting wasted I feel if anything is for the bar scene or hanging with your friends.. Not Alone.. on a weekly basis..

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/my-mom-is-drunk-upset-my-son-do-you-think-she-needs-help/feed/ 3 How do i get it through my son’s head that if he keeps up what he is doing he could hurt himself and lose…? http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/how-do-i-get-it-through-my-sons-head-that-if-he-keeps-up-what-he-is-doing-he-could-hurt-himself-and-lose/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/how-do-i-get-it-through-my-sons-head-that-if-he-keeps-up-what-he-is-doing-he-could-hurt-himself-and-lose/#comments Fri, 07 Oct 2011 01:24:24 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/how-do-i-get-it-through-my-sons-head-that-if-he-keeps-up-what-he-is-doing-he-could-hurt-himself-and-lose/ My son is 19 years old and his fiancee and him attend UF And live around 4-5 hours away. Well anyways his fiancee is pregnant with there first child she claims she missed a pill and that is how she got pregnant. And well anyways my son made it clear before that, that he was not ready to become a father until they were out of school. Well he somewhat flipped out on his fiancee and that is why his fiancee and him came to my house when she broke the news to him. Well anyways his fiancee are close i consider her a daughter i never had. Well anyways we were talking the other night and she told me she has noticed that my son has been drinking a massively amount. He was in the ER the day before her and i talked for alcohol poisoning. And he is still talking she say’s she trys to talk to my son and comfort him and everything but he is just pushing her away. I am thinking about driving down there and sitting down with my son and having a talk with him because if he keeps up at this pace he will hurt himself or even die and i do not want to lose my son. And i also want him to understand that he can not be like this around his baby or his fiancee and that he could lose them both. Advice?

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/how-do-i-get-it-through-my-sons-head-that-if-he-keeps-up-what-he-is-doing-he-could-hurt-himself-and-lose/feed/ 2 Should my son be punished? http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/should-my-son-be-punished/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/should-my-son-be-punished/#comments Thu, 06 Oct 2011 08:24:26 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/should-my-son-be-punished/ I was running late from work last night because there was alot of traffic so I asked my older sonn to pick up his younger brother from his friends house.he told me ok and he would go get him in five minutes. When I got home my younger son’s friend’s mom was pulling out of my driveway. I askedd my son why and he said she dropped him off. I was very concerned because my older son was suppost to pick him up 45 minutes prior. I was thinking that he wasn’t even home and he didn’t want me to know so he told his brother he couldn’t drive him. I asked my younger son if he knew where his brother went and he told me he was at home so i went to ask him why he didn’t pick his brother up. when I went into his room i smelled alcohol and he told me he was too drunk to drive his brother home. My qustion is should i ground him for drinking even though he did the right thing and didn’t drive his brother?
They are 14 and 17

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/should-my-son-be-punished/feed/ 15 Is it normal for a 24 year old to be friends with a 16 year old? http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/is-it-normal-for-a-24-year-old-to-be-friends-with-a-16-year-old/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/is-it-normal-for-a-24-year-old-to-be-friends-with-a-16-year-old/#comments Wed, 05 Oct 2011 15:25:35 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/is-it-normal-for-a-24-year-old-to-be-friends-with-a-16-year-old/ It’s two girls … and I just feel the older (woman) would get the younger (teenager) into stuff that they don’t need to be into.

BQ: Would you let your son/daughter hang out with someone that’s of legal age and can purchase alcohol/cigarettes for them?

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Please understand his allergies are so severe that contact with these foods causes a break out, Items like Shea butter are not options, I have contacted his Allergist, they arent helping!

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/alcohol-free-perfume-free-dye-free-moisturizers/feed/ 4 Alcohol Carding at grocery store? http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/alcohol-carding-at-grocery-store/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/alcohol-carding-at-grocery-store/#comments Tue, 04 Oct 2011 05:25:44 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/alcohol-carding-at-grocery-store/ My bf and I go to a grocery store to buy foods. He gets some booze for himself. I’m not 21 (I’m 20). When we get to the checkout, the checker asks him for his ID. But then asks me for my ID. Apparently both people have to be 21 to get the alcohol, even if I’m not the one going to buy it or anything of the like. I didnt have my ID on me anyways.

They said it was policy. How would this work with a parent there with their teenage son or daughter? It’s only happened at this one particular grocery store, we can still go to ANY other store and both not be carded.

What do you think of this?
This is in wisconsin, they have an all card policy. But I’m not sure how that works, pretty much its been them carding 60 year olds and what not. But I’m not the one buying the alcohol. Pretty much it seems to be if I’m just standing there..

We thought it was just the cashier being like an overprotective mother to another person kind of thing, but so far it has happened twice. Now when he wants booze I just stay in the car heh.
I realize it is their job, and I’m not holding a grudge for it. I did think it was interesting and just wanted to know what other people thought and how it would work in other situations :)

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/alcohol-carding-at-grocery-store/feed/ 6 is my son a sociopath? http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/is-my-son-a-sociopath/ http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/is-my-son-a-sociopath/#comments Mon, 03 Oct 2011 12:24:12 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmysonoffdrugs.com/is-my-son-a-sociopath/ For the past 18 years my son has been a problem. at 3yr he abused playmates and was kicked out of day care.elementary school he had conduct problems everyday including pornography issues. Middle school it only got worse in one incident my son manipulated 30 boys in beating another boy senseless. He acts if no one but himself matters and is very sadistic he also acts calm as if nothing is wrong with any situation that I find hostile I have also found him mutilating animals*cats*. Thats where I drew the straw I need advice on what I should do he denies anything is wrong with him. He steals from neighbors. 2 years ago he caught our nearby forest on fire. He drinks our alcohol and denies it. He manipulates any situation. He is very impulsive and very arrogant .He has sent 1 of our sons to the hospital 2 times. He is now 18 has been in jail once and from what I’ve been told beats his girlfriends. He denies it all even if we all know he is lying. I had also noticed he wet the bed beyond what i consider an appropriate age. I have found him to be very hedonistic and narcissistic. Also he feels entitlement for everything cars etc. Now at 18 yr old he has no real long term goals besides from his own words *I will rule the world* I am afraid for my son I need advice on what could be wrong with him and all these years I am ashamed of myself for never taking him to a psychiatrist. I know now at the age of 18 there is nothing I can do but I would like to know what could be the problem of all this?
My son has recently gotten out of jail he is now being forced into therapy maybe they can change this madness that’s been happening for 18 years. I’m almost positive he suffers from ASPD the conduct disorders were all leading up to this I hope this therapy can help him. All in all he is still my son and I love him very much.

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