Ok since ive been pregnant my whole plan was to have my mother and husben in the delivery room. But right now im not speaking to her because of and insudent that happend between us. Before anyone judges me. Hear me out.

Well me and my mom are very close, im a young mother, and she still suported me. But over the past 3months she been going through problems with her good for nothing boyfriend (of 3yrs, and shes supported him and his son the entire time!!) Well she finaly got fed up and left him, and he went crazy!!!
-kidnapped her and held her at knife point
-he called the cops and said she had drugs in the house
-called cps and said she was abusive to her children
-HAD TEH NERVE TO SAY SHE SMOKES DRUGS AND DRINKS WITH ME to cps!!
-broke into her house and took EVERYTHING (siblings cloths, bed, personals, ect.)
-turned off her lights and cell fone
-harrased her for weeks

Hes litterly a crack head, and hes nuts. And after everything he done to her me and my husben have been here helping her. We turned a fone on under my husbens name. Let her use money, pick up her kids when she was at work. And i was there to talk to her when she needed someone. BUT SHE GOT BACK WITH HIM. and since then hes.
-tried running over my lil brother and cuzzins (literly drove up on the sidewalk!)
-has had crack heads around my lil brother
-cheated on her
-TRIED RUNNING OVER MY GRANDMA

i know thats her choice to be with him. and wether or not i agree with it. its up to her. but then she went to the LOWEST LEVEL EVER and it made me not want to let her have apart of my sons life.

-i said a mean comment about him, AND SHE ATTACKED ME!!! And to make things worse while she attakced me, she went for my stomach!!

THAT IS NOTTTT OK WITH ME. Its very disrespectful not only to me but to her grandson!!!! And truthfully im scared. The look in her eye made me realize she wouldnt have stopped if my aunt didnt stop her.

So since then i havent talked to her or had any contact. But some family members are telling me its not right to keep her form the hospital on my delivery date. But to me its not wrong becuz of wat she did.
I NEED HELP!?!
do yu think im worng and should let her be apart of it?