Child Custody Visitation Rights – Father is unfit?

29/11/2010 admin 5 comments

My sister is going through a child custody visitation battle with her two sons father. She was never married to the guy, thank god.

This guy is a conpulsive liar, confirmed by psyhicatrist. A theif, hes even tried to teach me how to steal from stores, and hes been caught stealing while he had small children with him with no other adult present. Hes stolen gas, and been caught doing it. And got put into jail for stealing from a detectives house. Ya stupid…

He manipulated my sister and beat her while she was pregnant with my nephew, there are witnesses.
Hes a drug abuser (just weed as far as I know), and claims hes addicted and just cant stop.

When it comes to his kids he has been in and out of their lives, my oldest nephew is almost 7 and barely knows his dad, almost doesnt at all. Hes only met his youngest son once ever. And hes 2 years old next month. He does not pay child support and is almost 3,000 behind. He only pays to keep himself out of jail.

I will continue on
The question is…
He is trying to get visitation. He is so sure he is going to get it and I believe that he isnt because of his past and the way he has acted in the past and how much he has been in the kids life.

Now my sister has givin him plenty of chances to be in the kids life, but she has said enough is enough and doesnt let him see them untill he shows that he will do something.

But I need someone that REALLY, REALLY knows to tell me if he just may get visitation.

Hes now saying he will beable to take them out. He does not have any kind of custody over the kids. If my sister says no is that Kidnapping?
We want him gone. Hes irrisbonsable and careless.

In one of our arguments, I have the IM history, he told me to go look at a strobe light, and I am an epileptic.

Him and his new wife just got a pitbull puppy and they just had a baby.

His wife says that he is very good with their new daughter and even changes diapers.
Either he was talking on her messenger or shes lieing. I dont ever see him maturing. Hes 25 years old with 3 kids and 3k behind in child support. He makes money because he boasts about buying his new baby all kinds of things.
He comes down to see his boys for Christmas and brings them like 20 toys, expensive toys too. Thats not the first time its happened either.

Im fed up with him and its tearing my older nephew up because hes trying to cling to a male figure, the more he jumps in and out of his life the worse he gets.
We just want him to stay out of our lives.

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Written by REnate about 1 year ago.

Well she can go to court an try to get his visitation denied. She can also move.
Written by Kye H about 1 year ago.

If he pays no support she can not allow him to be around them. If he pays support he can. She needs to get with her lawyer and maybe request supervised visits only. Her lawyer can ask the court to make it so he can’t take them out alone. She needs to tell her lawyer of her wishes and fears
Written by Angelbaby about 1 year ago.

Chances are yes.But make sure your sister asks that he only gets supervised visitation.Make sure you have alot of witnesses to testify against him.That will better his chance of not getting visitation.And have as much documention as possible.Doctors records police records incident reports.school records about the behavior of the children councilors.. shrinks etc.Good Luck
Written by Rebecca E about 1 year ago.

Ok. First of all, is he harassing her? If so she should call the police every time. I dont care how stupid it is. Call make a police report. Get every police report or court document you can on his criminal history. When the court date comes, bring everything. If he continues to call or stop by, politely tell him not to do it and that they should handle it in court. If he does anything stupid she can get a restraining order. It wont make his chances any better if there is one in place.

Dont forget if you leave a paper trail on his behavior, no judge should give him visitation. This is not something she can run from. Moving might look like shes kidnapping since he is the father, unfit or not. Maybe she can make him give up his rights somehow. The only thing is, you have to be remarried to someone who is willing to adopt the children.Good luck.
Written by jennifernopants about 1 year ago.

I think the answer to this problem may lie in the last paragraph. If it can be shown that the presence of this man in his children’s lives is having a detrimental effect on either their physical and/or psychological well-being, the courts will be more inclined to discontinue contact.

As Rebecca suggested, a paper trail which shows that this man is aggressive or violent will provide evidence supporting the negative impact of this man in his children’s lives.

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Child Custody Visitation Rights – Father is unfit?

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