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alcoholic husband back to drinking but denying it?

admin — Sun, 15 May 2011 10:21:42 +0000

He said he didnt think to pour it out, and he hid it so noone would think it was his. My son also asked me why do I think he comes home chewing gum. its to get rid of the smell. My husband can’t smoke inside his work, so he says he chews gum when he can’t smoke. I asked him why come home chewing it when you can smoke, he said he guessed he liked chewing it. The part of me that believes he isnt drinking is because he was a very violent and aggressive drunk, and I’ve not seen that lately. We have had some arguments but not like before. And when he drinked, he never drinked whiskey or liquor, only beer. My son suspects he’s drinking stronger alcohol to get drunk quicker. My husband’s daughter and sister even suspect he’s drinking. I know I should believe my son also, but I have not found anything to suspect from my husband. What should I do? My son is his stepson. I thought my husband was going on 9 months sober. Please help me.

Alcoholic friend troubles,help!?

admin — Fri, 13 May 2011 16:21:34 +0000

5th time been on here about my friend helped her non stop now she been sober for 7 days she doesnt want to know me the prob is my son is 6 and in the same class as her kids my son has aspergers syndrome so he finds friendships so so hard usually i would pick her kids up sometimes and they would come n play now she blanking me and my son, my son is upset and now she actually told her family shes hid it for a year and been offloading on me she doesnt want to know me i am so hurt and now she is cutting my son out i cant understand people

My alcoholic husband finally took the hint and left. He never calls. Does that mean he doesn’t care?

admin — Thu, 12 May 2011 19:22:41 +0000

Married 6 years. Husband’s alcoholism progressively got worse, although he still retained his job as a school administrator. He loves the bars. I tried to keep up with him for a while, but couldn’t. He became verbally abusive, flirted with other women (I can’t prove adultery) and refused to get help. His mother and extended family try to talk to him sometimes, but don’t really force the issue. After all, he is the favorite son and cousin. He and I are both 54. I nagged, begged, made excuses, etc. I went and got him when he couldn’t find his car many a ‘next day’. He is the Cell Phone King and loves to wife bash. He has told lies about me, even sober. He lost his cell phone when he was out TWICE in bars and guess who he blamed? He finally left after I continually told him that if he wanted to live the single life, he needed to live it outside of our home. He has been gone a month, living in the same town. He has not tried to call or communicate. I don’t want the drama anymore, but I wonder if he truly doesn’t really care and I need to accept it. Is the fact that he doesn’t communicate a sign that he is ready to move on? I can’t ask him anything; he refused to talk about anything serious when he was home.

My husband is an alcoholic. When he drinks he gets verbally abusive…..?

admin — Wed, 11 May 2011 01:30:21 +0000

When my husband of 6 years gets a “buzz”, he is verbally abusive to me and my son.(from a previous relationship) When he’s sober and I tell him what he said or did he calls me a liar and denies it all. I have left him many times but I keep coming back. He has started AA classes and soon as he realizes I’m back, he stops AA and starts drinking again. I love him but this is causing me to really dis-like him. I am not attracted to him anymore because of this reason. When we lay down together all I smell is beer and his eyes are glossy. I need advice on what to do. I don’t want to turn my back on him, we have 2 children together and i have one from a previous relationship who looks up to my husband as his daddy. I don’t want them to think it’s o.k to drink a case of beer a day.(and still walk a straight line)

i want to leave my husband but i stay at home with my son and don’t have any income what should i do?

admin — Tue, 10 May 2011 04:20:44 +0000

my husband is an alcoholic and he’s mean to me when he drinks he always tries to bring me down he’s he always comes on to my best friend i don’t know what to do i love him but his drinking is too much for me to handle

i want to leave my husband but i stay at home with my son and don’t have any income what should i do?

admin — Mon, 09 May 2011 07:23:02 +0000

i want to leave my husband but i stay at home with my son and don’t have any income what should i do?

admin — Sat, 07 May 2011 13:20:30 +0000

An alcoholic friend?

admin — Fri, 06 May 2011 16:20:55 +0000

My best friend of 15 years is a full blown alchohlic. She has tried help and nothing works, she don’t want to quit. She has a very bad attitude when she drinks and gets verbally abusive. I love her to death but really can not take it anymore. She lies to me when she is drunk thinking i am stupid and can’t tell, she talks bad about my husband and my son!!! But when she is sober, she is the sweetest person in the world. I know I should just tell her if she is gonna drink then to just stay away, but she is the only real friend i have and on top of that she lies to me about drinking when she comes over. I don’t want this around my son and newborn. She has even lost her son and drivers liscence. Now I have a party for my baby coming up and I slipped about it to her and there will be alcohol there. Although I didn’t tell her when it is, what do I do about it? she has insulted our families before at recent parties. What do I tell her? Should I X her out of my life? I am confused.

The country song about a alcoholic dad.?

admin — Thu, 05 May 2011 19:22:31 +0000

It is the son asking how he is suppose to follow in his dad’s footsteps when his dad foot steps are stagger, how his dad came to graduation drunk and snuck out early.Come home late and drunk?? I know this is a bad discription but I would like any help!! Thanks!!!

My husband has become an alcoholic. I am getting depreesed because he behaves very badly with me?

admin — Wed, 04 May 2011 01:21:13 +0000

relationship has become very bad.He does not even want to have sex with me.I am 45 and he is 51.Some how although he is an alcohoiche likes to shout at me only for all his problems.last 7 years not a sinle time he has had sex with me. whether he has another woman or women i am not very sure. but he tries to fight for no reason.I have one adoted son. whi\o is 9 years old.