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me and my friend need some help convincing her sister?

admin — Sun, 15 May 2011 10:26:35 +0000

my friend Lauren and i are really trying to convince her sister Amanda not to name her daughter Crystal as her boyfriends last name is Meeth and her daughters name would be Crystal Meeth, would sounds and looks like Crystal Meth. She says she doesnt want to name her daughter anything else because ever since she was a little girl she has wanted to name her daughter Crystal if she had a girl and her son Kendall if she had a boy. What should we do? Her child will go through hell in school

need advice on life..?

admin — Sat, 14 May 2011 13:27:39 +0000

so i became a mother at 15,and i didn’t realize what having child was at the moment i did it to please my boyfriend at the time who was 16 we had been together since i was12. after our son he became abusive and addicted to meth so i left him.he then moved t a diff rent state across the country.i then became a single mom at 15 i didn’t have help of my family,only my older sister who i lived with after i got kicked out by my parents when i became pregnant.yrs later my son is 3 and im only 18,and a month ago i got married to a man who i adore and who is wonderful to me and my son,me and my son now have a great life and home,ad i found out im expecting a child with my husband,i also barley graduated hschoolbut i wwasn’table to do what all the other seniors do and i wwasn’table to enjoy eeverything likeprom grad night graduation,,ETC, like my friends did.i now find myseld somewhat depressed i dont know what to do i feel like im going insane,i feel like i made horrible decisions i gave up everything for my son and i dont want to some how blame it on him later on although i know it was my choice to have him,because i love him more than anything.and i feel like escaping atleast for a day,what could i do??
for those who chose to be ride or judge me: i know it was my choice but i know my brain did not work likeit does now i never realized what having a child entitled as dumb as that may sound and of course i dont wwant my kid to follow in my footsteps,i only want advice on how to get my mind off of this or should i go to therapy??what is there to do??

Why is my brother still the favoriate child?

admin — Fri, 13 May 2011 16:26:21 +0000

5 children, and he is the youngest. 2 of us are step, 3 are biological to my step mother. we are now all grown up, Late 20′s and early 30′s. in highschool me and him hung out and were like best friends. did some trouble which i grew out of. He just kept doing more and more illegal stuff and got deep into drugs. oldest sister has a family with 3 very nice boys, other sister has always held a GREAT paying job which takes time away from her children (parents look down on this), older brother does construction and lives with otherside of his family. does well for himself but is not very family oriented, comes around when he wants to (with my family i understand why), Me…I am in the military, served 5 tours, 4 to Iraq 1 to afghanistan, own my own home, live comfortably with new cars and 2 amazingly well behaved happy children (I seem to be blamed for most drama and problems of step mothes life).. youngest son DID drugs, he has receintly served 6 months in a bootcamp style court mandated rehab (mother says he picked it to get help, he didnt want jail), he has not held down job, lived off welfare, did drugs, had a meth-lab in his 1yr old son’s room, and now just broke parol and left state to got to a concert where he got busted selling drugs. 5 felony counts. mother still thinks he is a wonderful father and very noble taking the full sentance because he didnt turn in his supplier and get a deal. keeps his family safe that way. I know the problem is with the step mother.. common denominator in ALL drama, but why does the pride still maily remain with the child that has gone nowhere? she even has a count of days he has served thus far… its offensive.

How can someone just genuinely not care about their child?

admin — Wed, 11 May 2011 22:27:57 +0000

There are so many parents, both moms & dads, that just up and leave their children.. Or lose custody and don’t fight to get it back. My mother lost custody of me when I was 8 & my sisters were 1, and 4. She never attempted to get us back. She when on to develop a more extreme addiction to crystal meth, and never looked back.

My sons father never even attempted to get to know him. He left when I was 4 months pregnant. I don’t understand how someone could just flat out not care, not have guilt, and not want to have their children.

How could somebody do this? How can someone just NOT care? Call me crazy, but I freak out leaving my son overnight, more less just giving up on him & not caring.

Anyone raising your husbands child from a one-night-stand?

admin — Wed, 11 May 2011 01:32:26 +0000

My husband & I have custody of his child that resulted from an on-night-stand that happened just before we met. We didn’t know about her until about a year ago. I know she needs me (her biomom is a meth-head) and I will take care of her. The problem is, I’m having problems with treating her totally different than my daughter. My husband tries to understand but ultimately thinks it’s not fair. My take on this is…I don’t mind to take care of her but I’m going to make 100% sure my daughter does not suffer because of it in any way.

P.S. We also have my step-son every other weekend, holidays & summer. He’s awesome and we couldn’t have a better relationship.

My daughter is 12, Step-son is 11, new step-daughter is 10.

Looking for comments/advise. Thanks

Since I cannot reverse time what do I do now??

admin — Tue, 10 May 2011 04:26:11 +0000

I am on the methadone program and have been clean and sober for 1 year 11 months and two days, up until Sunday evening that is. Now I didn’t use down which is good, but I did use meth. For what reason I don’t know, or I don’t know if I know. What I don’t know is what to do now. My idiot side feels like ‘oh well I used so maybe I should just keep on using’, but then the practical side says to just keep working one day at a time. So what if I had a slip. Obviously there is a reason I feel I should go back on drugs full time so maybe I need to figure out what is wrong. Or something. To be honest I am pretty disgusted with myself right now. I wasn’t even craving dope. I am so disapointed in myself I think it would be easier for me to continue on high rather than deal with being mad at myself. I promised my son (now 7) when I got clean that I would never use again and I let him down. He was not with me when I did it. I can’t tell him. & I have 2 know I failed him. I am so mad. What do I do?
‘Down’ is what I call morphine or heroin
I use to do both ‘up’ (meth) and then ‘down’ (heroin). That is why I am on the methadone program, it helps ppl get off and stay off ‘down’. The category that both heroin and morphine falls into is: ‘Opiates’
I have not done any of that. Only meth (speed).

Why are believers so down on themselves?

admin — Mon, 09 May 2011 07:26:49 +0000

I’ve read things like: “we are not deserving of God’s love”

Let’s say there is a God, this God created you as you are, imperfect on purpose. You are going to do negative things, according to a certain religion, the only perfect person was the Son of God. If you follow this religion (and I think you do) then you should be accepting of your shortcomings as human beings, and instead of focusing on what you’re doing wrong, instead think of ways to not do them, or to better yourself and the people around you.

If there is a God, and “He” is “all-loving” then why would you feel like you’re not “worthy of God”

Consequently, if I was a gay, meth addicted prostitute, two things would be true.

1) I have brought a lot of negativity on my life

and

2) I would be in shock of any “all-loving” God that didn’t see me worthy of this “glory”

Now I don’t believe in said religion, but for those that do stop focusing on the negative aspects in your life, forgive yourself.

on thin ice starring diane keaton- where can i buy???

admin — Sun, 08 May 2011 10:26:32 +0000

it’s a life time movie directed by david attwood, where diane keaton becomes a crystal meth drug dealer to support her son who has asthma and then becomes an addict

anyone know where i can buy it? i have been looking for it like crazy and no luck…

another name it goes by is “breaking through”

i would love to buy it for my mom as a christmas present

life time website doesn’t sell it unfortunately…

Should I finalize a divorce after 3 year separation?

admin — Sat, 07 May 2011 13:27:03 +0000

After a 20 year marriage where drinking was an issue at times but the last year was drowned in crystal meth I left my then husband to protect my children. They are now young adults. I never went through the final chapter because he threatened to take my then teenage son away. I was stupid enough to believe that could happen. I know the answer already.

my childeren are with there grandfather cause mother is on the run from the law wat do i need to get them from?

admin — Fri, 06 May 2011 16:25:47 +0000

she is on the run from the law and may go to jail and is drug Addict on meth wat do i need to get my twin sons from there grandfather im the bilogical father and want my sons