My husband is an alcoholic and drug addict diagnosed with bi-polar and borderline personality disorder. He has been sober now for 8 months. I had to move into my parents house not to go bankrupt and have the bank take our house. My mother-in-law asked me why my husband is not on the deed, which I am on with my parents as they gift a portion of the house to me on a yearly basis. Tonight she told my husband what I told her in confidence was that I did not put my husbands name on the deed because I was concerned that if he did not get straight or get psychological help I might lose the house. Now he knows and is furious. Yes, I am wrong for lying to my husband, but now I am furious that my mother-in-law told him this without my knowledge. It’s a huge fight now. I do not feel I am entirely wrong as I have a young daughter and didn’t want his actions to affect us all. Should I ignore the fact that my mother-in-law betrayed my honesty and let her know how I feel (VERY upset) or should I just ignore it and not trust her anymore. This totally now ruins the relationship and I am weary that I cannot even be around her without suspicion. Input?????

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