best friend is pregnant again?

14/11/2010 admin 19 comments

ok my best m8 is a egular crack user and smokes endless amounts of weed. she has already got 3 kids and she is 20 now. shes pregnant again about 5 months and she still does endless drugs. she also gets thru a bottle of ace lightning a day ( she has cut down from 3) but they are very big its sum cheap cider drink we get in the uk. i duno wat 2 do. one of her sons is autistic and she cant even long after any of her kids. she had her 1st at 12. she sleeps with any1 and never uses protection shes had chylamidia 4 times and herpes tice. i duno wat 2 do
no chylamidia is treatable it only leaves you infertile if you dont treat it. as for herpes she caught it straight away and it cleared up. shes one of them lucky gals
social services anlready no, but she is a very good actress. her bf is also a dealer so yeah. i look after the kids for her 3 times a wekk and i take um 2 skool etc. if the kdis got taken away her bfs mates would kill me and shed kill herself. shes very messed up

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Written by Tacgnol about 2 years ago.

Get her fixed – take her to the Vet if you have too.
Written by this eggo is prego about 2 years ago.

STOP BEING HER FRIEND!
Written by Danyelle 17wks! about 2 years ago.

I have no idea what you should do either…it sounds like nothing is going to change her mind…

Just curious, how do you get herpes twice? I thought that was an STD that didn’t have a cure… That you could never actually get rid of herpes, only hopefully treat it so that you don’t spread it easier…Not sure on that either. Never had it.
Written by BaByMaMa Tashina about 2 years ago.

tell her to get her tubes tied and hand those kids over to a REAL mother!!

why is she your friend??
Written by SaRaH about 2 years ago.

this is horrible!! she needs to get fixed…after this one. to make sure she anit ruining any more kids lives. Also maybe she should think of adopting these kids. If they arent being tooken care of …you need to turn her in these kids deserve better!@
Written by curious123 about 2 years ago.

call child protection services someone like her should not be allowed to have children think of the kids they deserve to grow up in a loving home with someone who will accually watch over them
Written by MariahShanea!!:) about 2 years ago.

thats fing sick man! lol what the fuck i thought you wenrt supposed to be able to have kids after having clamidia? it steriles u
Written by Heather about 2 years ago.

And she is your best friend why?????

I would call DSS (or whatever the child protective services are called in the UK) and report your friend’s mothering skills – doesn’t sound like she is looking after her children’s bests interest and some body needs to!
Written by nene about 2 years ago.

call child protection services
Written by cutestdeadgirl about 2 years ago.

Get Wayne Brady to smack a bitch.
Written by kaileigh052502 about 2 years ago.

I had a friend that pretty much did the same thing. I quit talking to her and helping her. I didnt want me or my kids around her. The state ended up taking all three of her kids. I didnt want to be know for being like that. I tied all ends
Written by coolioyaman about 2 years ago.

i think that you should call your pocal police or family and child services office and report her, her drug use, neglect of children…all of it….those children need to be taken out of that harmful environment and the new baby needs to get propper care when born as it will need to detox……….i am writing from canada so we would call family and child services here where i am…not sure whart you would call it in the the uk, but you really need to call and report her….save those children’s lives and maybe even your friend’s too. good luck, this is very very sad.
Written by Proud mommy of three boys! about 2 years ago.

I know she is your best friend but there is more important people involved her children and her unborn baby. I would call child Protective services on her. They would take away the kids and help her get the help she needs with her addictions its obvious that she is going to help herself and she will keep going until someone stops her.
Written by Shutterbug_Mama about 2 years ago.

Sadly there’s nothing you can do. You don’t run her life.

If you’re concerned about the children you can get in touch with child protective services.

Other than that. Why are you best friends with her?
Written by seventy7seconds about 2 years ago.

There isn’t anything you can do to change her.

If you were willing to help out the kids, you can call some authority to have them taken away – but I understand how tough that is and how unfair that may be for the children to be torn out of their home, no matter how horrible it is there. it might just be worth it though to allow them to have a normal home environment.

If you know her parents or family members, you can speak to them about stepping in to take custody, or contact an interventionist that can help you and her family attempt to give her help. Maybe if she sees how she’s treating everyone, especially her own kids then she might change. If you know the fathers and feel that they’re better, then perhaps contact them to get them to seek custody if they don’t already have it. You could even go so far as to call the cops when you know she’s got substances in her home and have them show up to do something – I don’t think you have to give your name for that.

Other than that, there is nothing you can do except step away and remove that negative influence in your life. It’s a tough place to be in, good luck to you and her kids. Hopefully you can find someone to help step in and help those kids get a normal life, and maybe just get hers on track.
Written by Ela W about 2 years ago.

Hmm… its a hard one. i assume your friend doesnt really want any more children and on that basis if she can speak to a doctor she should be able to get sterilized – usually they dont do it for under 25′s but considering her circumstances an exception should be made, at least that way the problem of hurting any more kids is abolished. as for the the drugs and sleeping around it sounds like they are the result of a very challenging life – i know sex was not something i was really aware of at 12 never mind becoming a mother! she needs proffessional help for both her drug problem and blatent self confidence issues…but im afraid thats something she has to do herself and as sad as it is it may never happen. i sincerely hope for the sake of her children that she can overcome her problems.
Written by Emma_Della about 2 years ago.

wow… you call your self a best friend. let me tell you what a true friend is, is someone who wont support you when you are hurting others, by what you are telling me she can easily hurt her kids, are you going to let these poor kids suffer the consciences, fine she doesn’t want to listen, then seek help for her, because it is sad if something happens to them, its not their fault there mom is so childish, irresponsible and such a drug addict.
if you have the courage you will call, child services or children and family and tell them about your friend instead of telling us, but you probably wont do it not till you find one of those kids in the hospital, or your friend dead (god forbid)
when my step-sister was into a drug called “stone” first thing i did was tell my mother, from there we call child services and they sent her to a place where she recuperate,(her kids remain away from her) now my sister is the best mom ever.
she is well i can tell you that, and that is because we force her into helping her. if she wold have no kids i would had left her,i would’ve stay away from her, but because she had five daughters we had to force help. because of them not her.
Written by gaddisdb about 2 years ago.

I would call DSS (Childrens Protection Group in your area) and report her. She should not being doing drugs around her children. Who is watching the children when shes HIGH? Those children need to be taken away from her and she needs to be put in jail or rehab until she has the child she is pregnant with. Has she ever considered abortion/adoption/giving the kids to someone else. Someone like her does not need to be pregnant. There are so many good people out in the world who would make great parents and they are unable to have children and then someone like this will not get off the crack pipe long enough to have a child is popping them out like candy. That just sucks. I would definately report her to the authorities and PRAY TO GOD she will do the right thing for the children!!!!!!!!!! May God watch over those small kids!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Written by Skeptical777 about 2 years ago.

Well, I’m not going to say contact Child Protective Services or the UK equivalent bc, I know several people who ended up in foster care and were molested and abused, so they do not know what’s best for the children either. Does she have any family nearby? I would say that the best option is to contact someone in her family to avoid the drama of CPS and I know that you’re probably already talked to her, but ask her can you keep the kids for a while until she gets herself straight (while getting her fam involved it they are around). If not, contact a church community group. They typically like to get involved and try to help people in her state. Ultimately she needs rehab and possibly her children are the only thing that will get her there. I will pray for her and I wish you the best. Do not neglect her, but at the same time, do not let your friends’ burdens become your own if they are too heavy to bear. Get help outside of yourself for her and her children. Just helping the children doesn’t really help them and focusing on the mom doesn’t really help the children. I hope this helps.

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