Baby’s father is mad im going after child support and is saying that is going to go for full custody?

27/09/2010 admin 7 comments

When me and my baby’s father broke up a month ago, he told me to go after child support, so i did. plus, if i didn’t medicare told me that if i didn’t go after child support they would take away my son’s insurance. so i had no choice in the matter anyways.

well, i guess someone from child support showed up at his house looking for him and now hes so mad he is telling me that is going to go for full custody.

i don’t think he has a chance to get my son but i still cant help but worry. i am diagnosed bipolar and i am unemployed right now but i am in a government program that helps young mothers find employment. i have been there everyday just like it would be a job. so those are the only two negative things i would have against me.

he has custody of his daughter from another woman and the only reason he has custody of her is because the mother smokes crack. he barely pays any attention to his poor daughter and he smokes weed around her and hes an alcoholic. i want to call CPS on him but if i did, he would know it was me. and he said if i did he would kill me.

what happens when someone goes for custody? do i really have anything to worry about?
i have lots of family and friends around. i have very little money but i have always came up with a way to give my baby everything he needs.

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Written by Jillian ~*Cohen's mummy*~ about 2 years ago.

If you have been doing everything right for your son there is no fat chance is hell he’ll get full custody. they might grant him joint custody but not full

BTW i hope you are recording these coversations of him telling you that he’ll kill you. he definitely won’t get custody then
Written by i love my baby girl about 2 years ago.

I’ll call for you, What’s his name and address?

Seriously. It sounds like he is definitely unfit. It also sounds like you are in need of some help. Do you have any family around?
Written by ღ Audrey's Mommy ღ 6/5/09 about 2 years ago.

It’s very very unlikely that a baby is ever taken away from their mothers. Like in your ex’s daughters situation, there were extenuating circumstances. It’s discrimination on the basis that you are bi-polar, if you are taking care of yourself and taking meds. You worry because it’s your baby, but honestly I do not thing that you have much to worry about.
Written by Jaelyn Riley's Mommy! about 2 years ago.

every mother that has ever gone for child support has just about the same exact problem as you. they ALWAYS say that. worrying is like rocking in a rocking chair. it gives you something to do but it gets you no where. so dont worry about it. its pretty damn hard for a father to get full custody. just keep being a good mom, dont slip up, and you should be fine. like i said, just about every mom in your situation has gone through the exact same thing. hes just trying to scare you away from filing.
Written by its_victoria08 about 2 years ago.

I wouldn’t worry. He would have to prove that you are an unfit mother, and from the sound of it, he couldn’t do that. Unless you are a bad mother, they will always side with the mother, especially because he’s a young baby.

If you are worried your bipolar disorder might affect the case for custody, see if you can find a doctor that would testify that your disorder would not affect your ability to care for the child. Or, have a back-up babysitter that you would be able to call 24/7 (even a family member) that would take your child for you if you felt that you could not care for him at the moment. Then, have that person testify that they are there for you to call them any time in case you need a break.

I don’t know much about bipolar disorder, but if you think it could cause your ability as a mother to be questioned, take proactive steps now to show the court that you are a caring mother who only wants the best for your child, and that you are mentally capable of recognizing when you need to be away from the child for a bit of time.
Written by This mommy makes pretty babies about 2 years ago.

Gawd why do men suck so much sometimes?! I really think you have nothing to worry about. The court always wants what is in the best interest of the child.And very rarely separate the child from the mother. He got custody of his first because the mother was a crack addict the best interest of that child obviously wasn’t to stay with her mother. So next person is biological father.The bipolar shouldn’t make a difference as long as you follow the treatment program of a professional like meds and coulnsling! You don’t have a job but are in a govt. Program and actively looking. Good enough this economy is making it hard for college grads to find a job. You are trying and the court will notice that. And I would also tell CPS what’s going on and he threatened your life. That’s not gonna look good for him! There is no way I would let that SOB near my child no matter what and be the voice for that other poor child too!
Written by George McCasland about 2 years ago.

So what? An attorney will have informed him that he can still be ordered pay even with sole custody, and only 7 out 1000 non-custodial mothers pay. Only mothers go for custody to get child support.
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