I am writing this to get some answers so I wont feeling guilty. Or sick to my stomach about this, My spelling is not great so i hope you can understand. My daughter is 18 I have no control any more over her no more. Now I like to start with this. In 1994 I was married and adopted a 2 year old girl named Trinity she was already my wife’s child. The first day I meant Trinity she has never seen me before. She called me Dada it made me feel really good she sure was beautiful. I was married for 6 months things were starting to go down hill really fast and to fast. My wife started to drink and having sex with other men and with their wife’s and doing drugs. She was starting to come home really late when i had to go to work. Starting to D U I’s going to jail spending a lot of time with her friends because she was bored at home. I had to do cook, clean babysit my daughter or she was at her grandma and grandpa house while I was at wot work. Mom would always call and convince Trinity to stay Grandparents house.

Okay now the story is going to get even better, 2003 I finely said no more I could not handle this no more. I told my wife that I need a divorce. Grandma came over and had my sign a temporary custody papers so I can work graveyards. SO I thought. Well she lived grandma for 4 years, in July in 2008 she had 4 heart attacks in one month not cool so we thought. I went to see her and to she how was doing. Found out that my daughter will be living with aunt and uncle. Man I was really upset and looking forward to having her move in with me and my wife that I am truly happy with. I wanted to find someone that would take Trinity my daughter in and have her now how it feels to have a mother that loves her. I thought grandma would want that for her granddaughter. I need to back up here a year and a half ago grandma said that you would have to have alot of money to pay for a lawyer to get you daughter to live with you. So don’t even try and take her. and that her son and daughter in law will get her in our well. Me and my wife was very up set.

Well her aunt and uncle had a really bad time with her trying to teach her the right way it did not work with them. I get a phone call from her she was really upset wanting to move in with us. That she could not handle her aunt no more. I did not understand why they were not getting along. So I said yes I been waiting for the longest time to have her move in. Okay she moved in June of 2007she turned 16 years of age in May 3rd.Bad timing 16 years old. Well a year and 4 months later okay here we go. We thought we could trust her, Me and my wife took a 3 week vacation and had everything hooked up so if she needed food money for gas it was bad all the dishes were dirty and on the table. There were red stains in the carpet plates and cups all over the floor. O and by the way i did end up sighing custody papers to have her live with me. But any ways our freezer was shut off and all the meat and other food was spoiled and there was water 6 inches deep. Orange juice was all over the outside walls and all over our patio. We had found beer cans, wine battles and drugs hidden in her room and behind our big T.V. So I found a place to see if I could get some help for her and get her a second chance in life and maybe we could be a family.

It took me two months to find it I was able to have our church help pay for it and me and my wife payed some to get her help. Well we took her there and boy it was a nightmare. And we said our good buys she said that she loved my wife and hugged her good buy. But she said F#@ you and flipped me off and said I will never see you again and want nothing to do with you. One month later we had family therapy over the phone. She said she loves us and misses us and all the work she was doing and going to try and graduate from high school there. And on our first visit she huged us and kissed me for the first time she had never kissed me before that made feel really good.

Well 8 months later she turned 18 we went and got her so she can come home. We had made plains to go to Montana for my in-laws 50 year Anniversary. Plus our family reunion for a week and half. Our therapist said perfect make sure she does not have a cell phone and any contact with friend it’s your family time together. well on our way home we Trinity had a family mamber getting baptized and Grandma and Grandpa were there. Well her aunt came up to us and told us maybe she not tell you but i going to tell you any ways Grandma gave her a cell phone and put her on their contract. It was one of those new touch screen phones. Well they said it was for her birthday and bla bla bla about it. i told them That she can’t have it she was not aloud to have one on this trip and she is all ready on a contract with us and she all ready has a new phone from last year. well uit was free and had a really good deal. I did not want to argue with her about it but a was v