26 wks pregnant. the father said he’d take care of us but hes a drug addict.baby desrves better, a mom and dad

02/04/2011 admin 6 comments

i quit my bad habits when i learned i was pregnant and the babys father was suppose to too, but hasnt. he is a compulsive liar whose addicted to meth. i want my son to have the best upbringing, and in this world i believe that starts with a loving family, with both parents to guide him with unconditional love and stability.i dont want to raise my son without a father. ive always felt such a void growing up without one myself. watching my mom work constantly with very limited time to even get to know her kids. i regret being so naive. i dont want the babys father in my life and i refuse to let him be in my sons life. a man that will never love our son more than he loves meth. ive waited 7 months thru all his lies for him to get his life together and get off drugs, but now its getting close to my due date and i want to do whats best for my son. would like to find a loving couple that is interested in adopting my son. i need help. i dont know what steps to take

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Written by [//wow\\] about 1 year ago.

omg, im so proud of you, you sound soo mature ( i dont know how old you are ) but you sound so sure that you want to have the best for your son, your the type of mother that alot of kids wish for, a mother to care for them enough to give them away to a better capable family so they can grow up nice happy and strong.

you should consider looking into an open adoption so that you wont have to completly give your baby away, although he will be mommy and daddy, you can still see him when you want, have visitation, and he wont be just a memory.
Written by animal_mother about 1 year ago.

I feel bad for you. Great that you quit all your bad habits and seem totally devoted to being a good mom and doing the right thing. As you surely know, meth is powerfully addicitve and I doubt he will stop in time for the baby to be born. I think you should part ways with him and raise the baby solo, or look further into adoption. I’m not sure exactly who to tell you to talk to. Maybe start in the phone book under ‘counselors’ or ‘pregnancy’. Someone can guide you on what to do or who to call. Good luck to you and keep the welfare of your baby in mind throughout it all.
Written by BABY2ISAGIRL about 1 year ago.

Go to and adoption agency/ or call one, I think planned parenthood can help…….I have huge amounts of respect for you and doing the right thing. To me this lil boy couldnt ever ask for a better mommy.
Written by bek about 1 year ago.

well if u really think its best then give him up for adoption.talk to ur doctor about it.
Written by Gift of Gab about 1 year ago.

I know that is an extremely hard decision to make, i would search for places in your area that can help you find a loving family for your baby. Sorry you are having to go through this right now, but you have to be very strong to be able to handle this. I wish you the best of luck!
Written by Cheri S about 1 year ago.

First of all, if your going to keep the baby, keep the baby. Just because the dad is a drug addict (which I will touch on here in a second) doesn’t mean that you aren’t capable of taking care of your baby. And congradulations for kicking your addiction for yourself and your baby.

Having a baby with a drug addict is hard. I know. My husband is a recovering heroin addict. He has 1 month clean and when he came back from his last “outting” as we say, we found out we were pregnant. It is the hardest, most scariest thing in this world to not know 100% whether your baby’s dad is going to be able to be there as meth and heroin are very lethal drugs and any use can be their last. My husband has beeing in a recovery program called the 12 step program. He attends AA, NA, and CA meetings. He’s been in the program for years and he almost had 6 months clean and relapsed. It’s very heartbreaking as you must know. Maybe help your boyfriend find meeting in your area and maybe attend them with him. He needs to start working a recovery program, get him a sponser, and start trying to do whats best. It will be a tough road for the both of you, but your baby deserves to be with his mother more than anything in this world, and I’m super proud of you for stop using. If you want anymore information at AA,NA, or CA, you can email me at csears31907@yahoo.com. I can give you a couple of websites that you might want to look over. Good luck my dear and I hope everything turns out right for you. God has a plan. He will do right by you.

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26 wks pregnant. the father said he’d take care of us but hes a drug addict.baby desrves better, a mom and dad

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